Just had a yarn to Family Hack on the phone.
After some more thought and another inspection of that upper leak.
I am now thinking its not an oil leak, and its a small fuel leak. Coming out of runner #1.
There are absolutely no signs of oil in any of my intake pipes anywhere. They are all dry-as - which is a good thing.
There is no way that much oil could be coming out of #1 runner whatsoever.
I really think now its a bit of fuel leaking out of the inlet manifold gasket, and by the looks of it, mixing with dirt and grime, and hence it appears a bit more milky etc.
So pretty sure I just need a new inlet manifold gasket, or perhaps it could even be the injector not seated in its O-ring not quite correctly and gasket might even be fine. Either way, its neither here nor there. And I need to get some small injectors anyway so that the car doesn't have such a rich idle. So this might be the perfect excuse just to get all that done in one bang.
Anyway, I have wiped all the fuel/grime/oil/whatever away from it, everything is clean, so I will keep an eye on it now and see where any future drips come out from. My guess is that it won't drip any more while the car is just sitting there because the engine isn't running, so if its a fuel leak, nothing will come out until I turn the engine on again.
Yay at least I will have a balanced clutch without vibrating pedal, and a new rear main seal. Glad about that.