Check the linkage arms to make sure that they are secure and that thier mountings haven't failed. I'd be tempted to say that mr dad broke it :wasntme:
When you try to put it in 3, 4 & 5 does it grind and crunch or does the gearstick just plain refuse to actually go move into them? If it's grinding and crunching then it may be a clutch related problem, or worst case an internal problem with the gears themselves (however if 1 & 2 are functioning without noise or issue then it's unlikely that the box is nackered).
If there is no nasty gear-crunching noises then it may be either a linkage problem, a worn selector spring or a gate problem. The gate would be the worst of the three because even though it's a simple job to fix it, the gearbox housing has to be removed to allow access to it.
The spring is just a fat bolt by the black rubber bung that is the reverse switch. You undo the bolt, the spring sits inside it and has a ball bearing on the end. When the spring becomes worn it can no longer push against the input shaft enough to keep it tentioned, which makes gear selection very difficult because the gears no longer line up. Again simple fix, just replace or stretch the spring but do not loose that ball bearing!!!!
First thing to do is a good old fassioned bit of eye-balling. Jack the car up, get under there and have a real good close look at everything (linkages, mountings, brackets, check for leaks etc...).
With the k11 box, there are lots of different oppinions on this. But there is an issue with a dowle pin on either the box or the engine that prevent them from mating together. So there is some drilling and thread-tapping to be done. Also the drive shafts are different, in length and thickness. Again there is lots of materal and discussion on this topic, and many conflicting oppinions about it.
So my advise would be to try and sort out the current k10 box or find another k10 box to replace it before you start to think about going down the k11 box route.
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